What Does FML Mean? IRL, CYA, GR8, BTW, & More!

Updated on February 5, 2018
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Melanie is a social media hyper-user and has been blogging since 2007. She is an expert on things related to internet culture.

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What does FML mean?

The short answer is that FML means "Fuck my life"

Longer answer

Have you ever wondered what FML means? If you have, you're in the right place!

The slang term, FML, has become increasingly popular with the release of the movie "Just Go With It," where actor Adam Sandler types FML as his Facebook status.

This term has actually been in use way before the movie -- users on social networks such as Facebook, Twitter, and even in instant messaging clients and online games have been using the term for years.

FML is usually a somewhat offensive term and is often used in frustration. It is an acronym meaning Fuck My Life. Because of the meaning of this term, it should be used with care in order not to offend whoever hears it.

However, FML doesn't just mean "fuck my life." In fact, FML actually has several other meanings.

Alternative Meanings

Those looking for a polite version of this term may wish to use it to mean "Forget My Life," "Funk My Life," or even "Feeling Might Low."

FML has other definitions, all of which are completely unrelated to "Fuck My Life" which include:

FML scene from the movie "Superbad"

Football Manager Live (a website)

Family Medical Leave (sometimes called FMLA "Family Medical Leave Act")

For My Lady (A Moody Blues song)

User Submitted Meanings:
(submit your own meaning by commenting below)
Free My Life
Find My Luggage (heard at an airport)
Fix My Liver
Find My Lover
For My Love
Fix My Lover
Fix My Life

There are more strange and interesting facts behind the meaning of this term! For example, Christian groups made an attempt at changing the meaning of FML so that it doesn't have such a negative connotation.

Just going to add a little bit of oregano... fml!
Just going to add a little bit of oregano... fml!

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Interesting Facts About FML

FML has other, somewhat nonsensical definitions. As a joke, many say that FML means "Fix My Lighthouse." Those who say it means this may make up a fake history to back up the meaning of the word.

It may be really funny to hear the fake etymology (history) of the term, but it is meant as a joke and does not really mean this.

Making up meanings to FML is understandable. You have to admit, its original definition is fairly negative. Because of the somewhat vulgar meaning of FML, many Christian groups have been pushing a new definition: Forgive Me, Lord.

The attempt thus far, however, has not been a successful one and very few people outside of these Christian groups use the term to mean this.

The term is said to have its origins from the movie "Superbad" and has spread like wildfire from there on.

The phrase "FML" is so popular that there is an entire website dedicated to users who submit horror stories about things that have happened in their lives. Each story is appended with "FML."

© 2011 Melanie Shebel


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      Miltonpickle 2 months ago

      Farewell my love.... Nice way of saying "See Ya".

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      Anonymous 3 months ago

      Well I heard it in '13 reasons why' and still couldn't find any relation between f**k my life and the three friends#(lol

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      Lmao 10 months ago

      Forgetting more luggage.

      Forget my loans.

      Feathers my life.

      Forms move life?

      Forks my life.

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      Liz Elias 10 months ago from Oakley, CA

      About that movie: ROFLMAOPMP!!

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      hopemaxwell 17 months ago


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      Dee42 5 years ago

      I was reading a book and I came along these 3 letters, a girl's car was broke down and she said this similar to OMG. I was curious what it stood for. Ha.

      Great hub.

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      JBJblaze 5 years ago

      FOR MY LORD.

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      justin tyme 5 years ago

      FML frequently heard at airports, find my luggage.

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      Liz Elias 5 years ago from Oakley, CA

      This one, I'm well familiar with--in it's vulgar form! I see it on FaceBook all the time in posts from kids who think that being disciplined means they are being treated unfairly! Sheesh!

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      Melissa Flagg OSC 5 years ago from Rural Central Florida

      Sarah d, it could also mean Fix My Lover! lmao

      Great hub, there's a smartphone app too called FML and there are some CRAZY funny stories on there!!

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      Sonny88 6 years ago

      It could also mean funny man laughing

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      sarah d 6 years ago

      it could also mean Fix My Liver

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      chrysmen 6 years ago

      Another meanin of FML wil be free my lyf.

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      Honey 6 years ago

      Great info collected:)lol:)

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      Brittany Rowland 7 years ago from Woodstock, GA

      I like checking out the site FML. There are some pretty funny stories there. I didn't know about all the alternate meanings--cool info!

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      Emma 7 years ago from Houston TX

      Thanks for bringing my knowledge to the meaning of FML. It so nice

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      tomsum 7 years ago from Australia

      haha, good post!

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      kethyjewel 7 years ago from India

      I think FML means "for my love"

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      Hello, hello, 7 years ago from London, UK

      Aniything bad would spread like wildfire.