The Dangers of Social Networking

we are all linked together today in more ways than ever before
we are all linked together today in more ways than ever before

Sometimes a good idea can turn into something very bad. Social Networking is a good example of this. When it was created it was so that people could share thoughts and ideas with like minded people and keep in touch with distant family. Then it evolved into the monster it is today. It is heavily involved in every aspect of your life now even if you choose not to use it.

How many times do potential employers base their hiring decisions on what they see on social media rather than on the resume? How many stories are there of people losing their jobs, health insurance coverage and even their relationships because of something on social media that seemed totally innocent at the time? It's obscene the level of personal privacy we have given up in the 21st century and I think most of us do not even realize it has happened.

When we post on the internet we think we are safe and secure in our own living rooms or offices. Perhaps we are sitting in our underwear or in a proper business suit, it really doesn't matter. Why? It's because we are actually not in a safe and private place we are actually in a very crowded room surrounded by hundreds if not thousands of people on all sides, anyone of whom may, or may not, be listening in on your conversation.

Even those who are not on your circle lists (ie: Friends lists in Facebook, followers on Twitter, etc.) can still listen in to your conversations via wall posts and general tweets, responses to other tweets, etc. Think of it this way; if you are in a restaurant with your spouse having a conversation over dinner it is reasonable to assume that if you are not a little more careful those at tables around you, even though not specifically involved in your conversation, can still hear what you are saying correct? Same thing with social media, except it is not so much your volume as it is the 'where' and 'what' you are posting that matters more.

There are a wide array of Social Networks out there today.
There are a wide array of Social Networks out there today.
The Social police
The Social police

The Illusion of Security

The internet is definitely not secure, no more secure than walking down a street in the middle of the day in a very large city. In such a scenario you are routinely filmed without your knowledge by CCTV, cell phone cameras, regular everyday digital cameras and even the occasional TV camera. The internet is the same way only instead of video, your every keystroke is recorded, every photo you upload is archived. Did you know you cannot 'delete' a photo from Facebook? Oh sure, you can remove it from your profile and the button is labelled 'delete', but Facebook keeps a copy, they always have, it is in your Facebook end-user agreement. Have you read it? Have you read any of the end-user agreements on these social media websites? You should. Did you know you cannot delete your Facebook account? You can deactivate it but it will always be there and hackers love inactive accounts. The password never changes.

On many occasions law enforcement has been able to track people and their activities based purely on internet activities alone. Most of the time this is for a good reason, to be sure, but have you ever asked yourself how they got access to this or that private chat message when they are obviously not a part of the social media circle in question?

Don't forget that every website on the internet has a 'sysadmin' and he can see and watch everything on their network. So, be sure of it, everything you put up on the internet STAYS on the internet for at least a VERY long time and it can be viewed by a wide variety of people for many different reasons. Every time you visit a website your IP address is recorded in a log file somewhere and associated with that website.

most of us don't
most of us don't

The Illusion of Privacy

I once read a story of a woman who suffered from chronic depression. She was given time off from work to deal with the issue and was paid by the medical insurance company while she was off from work. On the advice of a doctor, recommended to her by the medical insurance company, she took a vacation to Mexico to help relieve the stress and depression. She posted pictures of her vacation on Facebook when she got back and the insurance company seen them, they said she was lying and could not possibly be depressed and going on vacation at the same time and cut off her benefits. This woman probably thought she was only posting to her own circle and chances are good the insurance company is not a part of that circle yet they still got the photos. How did that happen? No privacy on the internet.

There are other stories out there as well, teachers who have been disciplined for what they have said on Facebook in private chats or in rooms. Police officers,various other public officials, etc. I won't bore you with them, just remember there is no privacy on the net and there are countless examples that do not relate specifically to government spying or evil agendas. Don't do, post or say anything on the internet you would not do in public.

Social Media is not for children who do not understand why the concept of privacy and safety are important.
Social Media is not for children who do not understand why the concept of privacy and safety are important.

The Illusion of Safety

The internet is definitely not safe. Especially for your kids. The best piece of advice I can give in this area is to learn how to use the built in firewalls on your routers to block out specific websites from your child or even for your own benefit. Do not just rely on the built-in Parental Controls that comes with software firewalls to work. Most of these do not screen out social media the way it should. In my opinion no one under the age of 18 should even be on social media. It serves no purpose to kids other than to distract them, keep them inside and get them into trouble.

Consider the recent bullying cases involving Facebook. In the old days, before social media, a bullied child would at least normally be safe at home from the bullies but now they get no respite at all, bullying in schools pours over to bullying at home in the form of Facebook threats, insulting tweets and constant insulting and threatening text messages. Don't even get your kid a cell phone, I grew up without one, they are not required. They are distractions at best and tools of aggression and hostility at worst. Constant and unrelenting bullying has lead to suicide among our young people.

And get into reviewing your kids interactions with social media. Save and review internet history listings in your browsers. Learn how to review the log files that are generated by your routers and operating systems. Everything you need to know is probably there and don't be afraid to block websites.

Keep yourself safe too. Watch who you interact with. Too many bad stories out there begin with the words 'They met on the internet'.

Too much of this at work can lead to ...
Too much of this at work can lead to ...

The Workplace

If you have multiple machines at your disposal, one at work and one at home then do things like banking and social media interactions from your own home computer. Doing this from work, unless specified in your job description – this should be allowed very cautiously I think, only introduces a whole new level of monitoring into the equation. All corporations monitor their own networks, I know I have been doing the monitoring for years now. Also remember that corporate email accounts and corporate computers are not your own property, they belong to the corporation as do all information on those computers and in those accounts. They can seize it or review it at any given time without giving warning to the employee first. Most of the time you will not even be aware that you are being reviewed. Social Networking does not belong in the workplace.

Do you know how to use the filters and firewalls built into most home routers today?

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Were you aware that you lose ownership of your photos when you upload them to many social media websites?

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Would you restrict your child/teenager from accessing Social Media all together?

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So let's review then;

  1. Never do, post or say anything on the internet that you would not want repeated over and over again and which you would not do in public.

  2. Everything that goes on the internet stays on the internet probably for ever as far as your concerned.

  3. Social Media should be restricted to the over 18 crowd. This should not be some 'law' or anything, rather a conscious decision of us, as parents. You would protect your child from a pedophile who lived down the street right? Well, they live and hunt on the internet too.

  4. Don't get your kids a cell phone and if you really have to then get them a BASIC cell phone, not a iPhone or a Blackberry, so that they cannot go on the internet outside of the house. All cell phones can be tracked by GPS.

  5. Keep yourself safe. Protect your actual location and arrange to meet anyone for the first time in a very public and well populated place.

  6. Never do your social networking from a workplace computer. Never do ANY personal computing from a workplace computer. That stuff isn't your and is heavily monitored.

Social Media was not created for evil purposes but, like anything, it can be misused by a wide variety of low lifes and various other forms of riff-raff. Is the government monitoring you on the internet? In a general sense yes they are. But there are those out there watching you a lot more closely than that. Be aware!


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CreeViking 3 years ago from Rural Canada Author

here is an example of what I am talking about when it comes to privacy and your photos on facebook

check it out yourselves

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funny123 2 years ago

I just read your article. I was wondering if you ever heard of I recently stumbled across an ad about it. I went to the site and the privacy policy satisfies my needs as well as bunch of other concerns such as who sees what. From what I saw, you can do just about everything you would need to do as far as social media is concerned. If you have heard of this site could you let me know what you think?

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CreeViking 2 years ago from Rural Canada Author

Had a look at this and, on the surface, it looks OK. they say they never give out info but you need to match that up with laws. they could be FORCED to give out info regardless on if they want to or not.

All websites have sysops so there is always a couple of people who could see your stuff but sysops are usually trustworthy. I would go ahead and use it if you want but just remember the golden rule. Never do, say or post anything on the internet you would not want repeated over and over.

Try to find some user feedback on the site before you join. Look for feedback on security (a big one, it is irrelevant to 'not sell data' if their system can be easily hacked) and privacy.

just type 'glom feedback' into google and see what comes up.

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funny123 2 years ago

Thank you. I was reading the privacy policy for instagram and found the following a bit troubling:

Instagram, its Affiliates, or Service Providers may transfer information that we collect about you, including personal information across borders and from your country or jurisdiction to other countries or jurisdictions around the world. If you are located in the European Union or other regions with laws governing data collection and use that may differ from U.S. law, please note that we may transfer information, including personal information, to a country and jurisdiction that does not have the same data protection laws as your jurisdiction.

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CreeViking 2 years ago from Rural Canada Author

This is just a warning to inform you that privacy laws vary from place to place.

Remember though, laws don't mean anything when your country has organizations that are allowed to simply ignore them or to 'work around them' - laws only work when they are enforced unilaterally.

So even though they say they respect and obey the laws, there may still be organizations which can either 'hack' the info or simply order the site to surrender it. If the organization giving the order is in the same country as the company that hosts the website then they would have to comply with the order. Foreign sites ... not so much.

So remember the golden rule always - Never do say or post anything on the internet you would not want repeated over and over again. Most of the security policies this site advertises are standard ones throughout social media but these companies that run these sites do not always have the last word in the matter.

cliford 2 years ago

Very helpful as a new user i find

this imformative

hailey hallalla 2 years ago

this is a bad website.

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CreeViking 2 years ago from Rural Canada Author

what is a bad website?

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Kristina Pitts 2 years ago from Greenville, SC, USA

Interesting and very good article but you can delete Facebook. Here's how:

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Andrew Bing 24 months ago from Romania

You can never be too careful nowadays. Great hub!

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indianreel 23 months ago from London

Very helpful and informative. A little scary too :)

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CreeViking 23 months ago from Rural Canada Author

Thanks for the comment. Hopefully not too scary - the goal was just to get people to think while on the internet the same way they would think when walking down the street in public.

There are certain things we wouldn't do and certain things we wouldn't say in public but the internet seems to 'trick' people into the illusion that somehow what they are doing is private and no one else will hear it even by accident.

Hopefully I am succeeding in changing some simple thought patterns when it comes to internet usage.

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TTGReviews 21 months ago

I feel like this is trying to scare people away from using social media sites because of the few dangers. For instance, we don't know why electricity works, it just does, but people still use it almost all day long. Just because you can drown in water doesn't mean we shouldn't drink it. Everything we do has some sort of risk or danger involved.

Although, I do agree that we need to be careful about what we do and say on the internet.

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CreeViking 21 months ago from Rural Canada Author

Actually we do know exactly how electricity works and how to generate and how to use it safely.

This article was never meant to 'scare' anybody. Simple awareness is all I am generating, and based on news stories, this is needed. At no point do I suggest it should not be used at all except where children are involved.

I stick to my guns on that one. Children should ALWAYS be heavily monitored and have all their online contacts screened by the parents. they should never have a single contact that is 'unknown' to the parent.

Alliacia agba 18 months ago

I think it's a bad thing.

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Thelma Alberts 18 months ago from Germany

It sounds really scary. We should be very careful of what we do in social networking. Thanks for the infos.

China Abarquez 18 months ago

I never expected that when i upload photos in my social media accounts I lose ownership on these photos. How come? I'm not really aware of it maybe because I am only active on Facebook and my account is private. And also I don't add people whom I don't personally know plus my photos is restricted to my friends only. It's a bit scary.

Viravong Norodom 15 months ago

someone hacking to my computer 15 time and I lost a lot of my document since i play facebook and Cambodian people's told me the dictator from my country want to throw a lot of Cambodia who play on facebook and criticise the dictator prime minister on facebook and some did go to jail and right now Facebook is control by Cambodia country and before we have peace in facebook and some Cambodian inside working for prime minister try to threat my life that i told to much that Cambodia land was lost by Hanoi country and Hanoi country did push the border a lot into Cambodia

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PegCole17 11 months ago from Dallas, Texas

A good reminder about using caution when we post personal stuff. Thanks for the information.

debbie 8 months ago

As a victim of stalking, bullying, relentless harassment, identity and copyright theft (photos too) , hacking, via social media that included Facebook, readers please take this hubpage author's sound advice. Especially for your children as well.

Thank you for a fine article.

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CreeViking 8 months ago from Rural Canada Author

you are welcome and thank you for sharing this

someone out there 4 months ago

good one. used to be my essay title

Riccardo 6 weeks ago

Great article! I think that you show a frightening reality.

I'm in the cyber security ambient and for me, there are other dangers with this media.

I've talked about there:

Thank you for the article!

- Riccardo Malatesta

slayerof war 6 days ago

The article was useful, great facts and your evidence backs it. if only parents were as strict and caring as they should be by hiding social media from their children.

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